Men, can't live with them, can't cheat without them.

I had been asked the following question, why is it guys that say they care about you will flirt and talk to everyone else but you? A little weird and inconciderate?

Here is my response,

From an anthropological point of view, men and women have for thousands of years attracted the other sex whether intentional or not. But not to stray too far, you are asking about men's actions towards other women when they are already in a relationship whether married or not mind you. It is man's nature to "hoard" the women of his social circle, even if a woman he has NO sexual attraction too he will still directly or indirectly try to take her away from another man. An example is when female x asks a man she knows about a clock radio, the man will automatically give his dominance into telling her what to get where to get it, and may even offer to help you get it. I can understand that even though all it was, was a harmless gesture, it is human NATURE for the man to even opinionate himself over a suggestion another man-made because to him that man's words are worthless and a woman's is inferior anyway.

That being said to answer your question from my view, first of all I do not deny the fact that I am also trying to dominate the subject by opinionating myself on others because for example @Jessica Nicole who says there is a third group "the space givers" they are not space givers they are just currently interested in other more important issues, or their goal is something else that you are not aware off, not everything a man wants from a woman is sex by the way, men and women for that matter require different things from different people all the time.

People will "try" to keep anyone they encounter as beneficial to them as long as they can with whatever means they can. If one person can keep a person "hooked" by pretending to care for them to get something else off them, they will. This alone shows that we are selfish, and we are. there is no human on earth that is not selfish, again its human nature and their core survival mode. Selfishness as a word can mean for good things as well. I am selfish that I want people to care what I just wrote now, why? because it gives me self-satisfaction. Another person can get their satisfactions with means of a mutual exchange, the level of the exchange differs, this isn't a product trade where I can get a bag of oranges for a dollar. Each person makes their own trade cost according to how much do they want whatever it is they wanted.

I realize I was blabbing on too much, but I just hope that I brought some insight.